10 Flirty Texts For Long Distance Relationships

Long distance relationships are tough. Keeping the romance and attraction burning strong can be brutal. Help is officially to the rescue! By pressing just a few buttons (literally), you can turn that lonely separation into a passionate sensation! Text messages are a great way to close the gap, and open the floodgate of romance. However the trick lies in finding the perfect words to send your partner. We’re here to teach you what to say, and just as importantly, how to say it when you’re away from your lover.

10 flirty texts for long distance relationships
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If you have been, or are in a long distance relationship, you know just how difficult it is to be apart from your significant other.

Instead of looking them deep in the eyes as you chat over morning coffee, phone calls, Skype, emails, instant messages (what’s app) and texts become your main form of communication. Scratching your head asking yourself how can you be flirty and/or romantic through these modern tools? Are you wondering what to say? Yes, long distance relationships can be tough!

Relax! We have some examples and ideas to fit almost all long distance relationships. So until you both meet again, sweeten the anticipation with only a few words…

Long Distance Relationships Example Texts

• A kiss for each day that we’re apart.
• Going to hold you so tight when I see you.
• You should be here, touching me.
• You’re my favorite daydream.

• My pillow still smells like you.
• You should hear the smile in my voice when I think of you.
• Missing the way you move against me when you sleep.

• Just your voice is enough to turn me on.
• I just want you to be happy, here and naked.
• Been reading up on new ways to please you…

The DOs & DON’Ts

Long distance relationships have rules too:

1. It’s not only about you. Don’t forget to ask them how their day or week is going.

2. Don’t slip into the habit of becoming easily jealous and obsessive. Give them time to reply to your texts and try not to come across as needy. People can feel needy 1000 miles away – desperation comes through every time – even in long distance relationships.

3. Keep up regular communication – at least once a day! But remember not to go the other extreme by spamming them. Nothing screams psycho louder than a chain of 10 texts!

4. If you’re in different time zones, be considerate and don’t text them too early or late in case they are sleeping.

5. Keep them updated about your life and at least once in a while, let them know that you’re thinking about them and that you love them.

And That’s It!

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About Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox is a modern communication expert who gives singles and couples alike the tools they need to improve their relationships. She is the creator of The Text Weapon Texting Club, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She loves the outdoors, baking tasty treats for friends, and of course, texting.

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8 Responses to “10 Flirty Texts For Long Distance Relationships”

  1. “Hey Claudia” You’re the best and everything you got here change my life to a rock star. I love you “Claudia” gigantic kisses to your forehead.

  2. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while , but he moved away and we tried making things work long distance. It worked for a while but the time zone thing is really hard , we can basically only speak to each other for one hour and then one of us need to sleep. Its mostly because his bad sleeping habits and I feel like I cant get his interest like before , How can I get the spark back ?

    • Hi Nicole,
      If you only have 1 hour per day then try to keep your messages positive and avoid complaining about problems at work or with your family (I know that can be hard to do, but if you feel the need to say something negative talk to your best friend or brother/sister). Also, mix up the tone of your messages – between sweet, funny and flirty. If you are always sweet or always funny than your messages will become boring. Here are a few examples:
      flirty: “Missing your warm body next to mine”
      sweet: “Sending you a text filled with 10’000 kisses”
      Talk about what you wish you could be doing together, to make him feel like he is still part of your life:
      “Wish you were here so we could go to our favorite spot in the park and get in rambling conversations”
      And the last thing…make sure that you make solid plans to meet up, then count down the days “T-20 days until I am going to smother you with kisses”
      Hope this helps!

      • Thank you Claudia, but things are just not working out with him just a moment ago I told him we should take a break, perhaps after the break we could start over but one hour per day is just not enough for me, anyhow your tips were very good and if we do decide to get back together I will try to put that effort.

  3. Hey Claudia,thank you for the tips.Am in a distance relationship,we meet in working days but now we don’t.Hope your tips work.I love her but with this i think of cheating on her.Thank you

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