Flirty Good Morning Text Messages That Make Their Day

Are you looking for an easy way to start your partner’s day off right? A way to invade their thoughts and stay there for the entire day? Why not send them a “good morning” text? Depending on where you are in your relationship, it could be anything from an inside joke to a sweet love note, an inspiring quote, or just a simple “good luck with your big thing today” message. The goal is to show that you care. Read on for some creative ideas.

Good Morning SMS

Flirty good morning text messages are a great way for couples in any stage of a relationship to show their affection for each other. As you have probably experienced first-hand, there’s nothing better than waking up to a warm, friendly message from someone you love (or you really like!).

In The Beginning…

A new relationship is always cause for celebration. When you’re still in the process of figuring each other out, keep your good morning texts sweet and sincere. After all, you’re still discovering what makes your new partner tick.

Example 1.
Goal: Highlight something specific that’s taking place in their life. “Show you. Discuss them.” Try to throw in a little of your own unique personality.

Message 1: “Good luck on your presentation today! You’re going to rock their world!”
Message 2: “If you’re nervous, imagine the guys in speedos and the girls in granny panties…that should take the edge off :-)”

Example 2.
Goal: Prove to them that they’re the first thing on your mind in the morning.

“Good morning (insert cute name such as: superstar)! Did you sleep well? Or were you too busy dreaming about me :-)”

Example 3.
Goal: Make plans to spend a few fun moments together later in the day.

“Hey (insert cute name such as: amazingly cute girl)! Looks like a gorgeous day. Want to grab sandwiches for lunch and sit in the park?”

Example 4.
Goal: Help them ease them through a rough patch.

“Stay strong, and remember that you’re the best. I can’t wait to see you after work and spoil you rotten.”

Example 5.
Goal: Associate yourself with positive thinking.

“I hope your day is filled with smiles, sweet surprises, and of course, me….”

Example 6.
Goal: Inspire them with a “Good morning” quote that fits their mood or situation. Make it personal by providing some context before hitting send.

Message 1: “I know you’re not a morning person, but today’s going to be a great day!”
Message 2: “The breeze at dawn has secrets to tell you. Don’t go back to sleep. – Marcus Aurelius”

Flirty Good Morning Text Messages For Established Relationships

Once you’ve established a strong connection with your partner, it’s a great idea to get in the habit of sending good morning texts on a frequent basis. If you and your partner normally text each other throughout the day, then the first text should be well thought out and personal. Use this opportunity to set the mood for all the other exciting messages to come.

Example 1.
Goal: Say good morning in a cute and flirty way by giving your partner a compliment.

“How’s the prettiest girl/most handsome guy I know doing this morning?”

Example 2.
Goal: Let them know they’ve been starring in your thoughts and dreams.

“So, am I the only one, or did you also have a fantastic dream about us last night?”

“I heard a song on the radio last night that made me think of you….and guess what, it’s still in my head this morning!”

Example 3.
Goal: Be playful and drop a hint that you’d like to see them.

“Happy Tuesday! Let me know if you need some help getting into trouble later, I have a few slick ideas up my sleeve :-)”

Example 4.
Goal: Get them excited about your day together with a peppy good morning text that hints at flirty things to come.

“I hope you’re well-rested, because we’re going to have a lot of fun today…indoors and outdoors :-)”

Example 5.
Goal: Set a positive tone for the day

“Hoping your day includes picking the fastest line at the grocery store, hitting all the green lights, and plenty of me.”

Cute Messages For Long-Term Partners

Even when you’re in a comfortable, long-term relationship, never let mundane texts become the norm. Use your wealth of shared history together to your advantage. The time you’ve spent as a couple arms you with lots of great text conversation material to keep the connection hot. Use your good morning texts to emotionally pamper your partner before their busy day engulfs them.

Example 1.
Goal: Make them feel appreciated.

“Good morning (insert cute name such as: super sexy). Feeling lucky to be with you. You’re always the first thing on my mind. Every day.”

Example 2.
Goal: Share a quote that reminds you of them. Be sure to give some context first.

Message 1: “Just ran across this quote and it made me think of what a positive impact you’ve had on my life.”
Message 2: “When I first open my eyes upon the morning meadows and look out upon the beautiful world, I thank God I am alive. – Ralph Waldo Emerson”

Example 3.
Goal: Prove their worth by telling them there’s nothing you’d rather do than spend the entire day together.

“When I woke up this morning, I didn’t want to leave you. Sitting here at the office, I’m still dreaming of being next to you.”

Example 4.
Goal: Add a spark to their morning with a show of your gratitude.

“Hello my love, thank you for helping me with (insert something specific such as: selling my car). You’re so much more than just a pretty/handsome face. You’re amazing.”

Example 5.
Goal: Build anticipation. No matter what your surprise turns out to be, your loved one will definitely spend their day excited to see you.

“Top of the morning to you, baby. When I see you later today, I have something special for you that I’m sure you’re going to love…”

Example 6.
Goal: Use a well-chosen quote to motivate your partner and help them get through a rough day.

Message 1: “You have a tough day ahead, but remember that you have all the skills to make it through…Jump up and stay positive.”
Message 2: “When you wholeheartedly adopt a “with all your heart” attitude and go out with positive principle, you can do incredible things” Norman Vincent Peale

Example 7.
Goal: Give them a pep talk while letting them know how much you care about their emotional state.

Message 1: “Good morning my little Energizer Bunny, I hope you finish your to-do list this morning. You’re such a hard worker.”
Message 2: “Please take some time for a break -you more than deserve it!”

Good Morning Messages For Long-Distance Couples

In a long-distance relationship, good morning texts are the equivalent of a hug and a kiss. They can be the difference between a lonely day and a happy one. So, make these texts count.

Example 1.
Goal: Tell them how something gorgeous makes you think of them.

“The sky is clear and blue. The only thing that could make this morning more beautiful would be having you here to share it with me.”

Example 2.
Goal: Show them that their presence counts, and how waking up away from them is a hard thing to do.

“I wish I was waking up in your arms. I miss your touch, the smell of your skin, and the warmth of your body.”

Example 3.
Goal: Share a quote that reflects how you feel about being far apart. Remember to provide context before sending the quote.

Message 1: “This quote made me think of you, and how much I miss being cozy in our bed.”
Message 2: “Morning without you is a dwindled dawn. – Emily Dickinson.”

Example 4.
Goal: If you can’t be with your significant other in person, then you can at least be in their first thoughts of the day.

“Good morning (insert cute name such as: sweetness). Wish I was there to kiss your head and whisper good morning in your ear. Please consider this message as a raincheck.”

Example 5.
Goal: Let them know you’re supporting them, even from afar.

“You do realize that you’re the best at everything? Even “not fun” stuff like today. Be strong and know that I’m always here for you.”

Example 6.
Goal: Let them know how much touching base with them throughout the day means to you.

“Sweet dreams are made of guys/girls like you 🙂 Hope your day is off to a good start. Craving your voice….will call you later.”

Be Their Ray Of Sunshine

Waking up in the morning can feel like an arduous task, especially when there’s a long day ahead of you, staring you in the face. Being in love takes the sting out of a stressful morning. Your texts can serve as pleasant reminders of your love and be the motor that keeps your partner smiling.

Banish The Snoozers

Worried that you don’t have time to plan a creative, cute message? It’s easier than you might think! Often, adding a special name is just the right spice to turn a “snooze” message into a “wow” one. For tons of message templates and ideas on how to craft catchy names for your partner, check out TEXT WEAPON – French Seduction Made Easy. This eBook includes an entire chapter dedicated to creating warm, sexy, or just plain funny names. Learn how to write flirty good morning text messages that make them crave you.

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About Claudia Cox

Claudia Cox is a modern communication expert who gives singles and couples alike the tools they need to improve their relationships. She is the creator of The Text Weapon Texting Club, and the author of French Seduction Made Easy. She loves the outdoors, baking tasty treats for friends, and of course, texting.

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91 Responses to “Flirty Good Morning Text Messages That Make Their Day”

  1. Imagine if i was given a moment to hold on my past i wouldnt let you go,you are everything i need and i have never realized that i cant survive without you good morning my love

    • Good morning Moso, How are you? Thank you for sharing your message, I can tell that it comes from your heart. Bisous, Claudia

  2. Hello, I am Newley married and I have the most amazing wife. And I am currently deploying oversea with the army. I was wondering if you have and good morning texts I could send my wife to show her how much it love her even tho we can’t talk much. I would really appreciate it. Thank you.

    • Your message really touched me. I’m sorry you have to be away from your amazing new wife…please send me an email ( and I will send you something special that you can share with her from across the miles. Bisous, Claudia

  3. I love your site. I’m full of love in my heart and i don’t have anyone genuine to share my feelings. (hook me Was looking for a text to send to my admirer without being suggestive. found a couple…thanks

  4. Its 7mnths nw m in a long distance relationship my man works in cape town and th fact that he’s miles away from me pains me, I want us to last he’s my best friend!

  5. Hi Claudia I’m in a long distance relationships,my boyfriend is in the military. I wanted to send him sweet messages when he’s at work and busy. The sweet messages that will rock his world .thank u in advance

  6. Hi I’ve been married for 7 months and things have been tough. She currently works away and don’t always get a chance to see each other regularly. She is coming home and I am going a suprised garden party bit I’ve also just completed doing out like garden up and want to romance her. I message every day but run out of cute things every day can you help please x

    • Hey there,
      It is really nice to hear from you 🙂 You must be excited to see your wife, I hope your garden party is a huge success! You can send her cute messages such as: “Missing your warm body next to mine.” “I can’t wait to wake up next to you again” “I hope you think of me too when you fall asleep” “The space between my fingers are where yours fit perfectly”
      Gros bisous x

  7. Claudia,

    Thank you so much for these! I will definitely be using some of these. I especially like the ones for long term partners as I have been married for 36 years and more in love than ever.

  8. Well my mum want me to marry one of her friend daughter but the girl is really given me tough time is there any advice you guys can give me to win her heart

    • Hi Faruk,
      Happy New Year! I think that the best way to win her heart is to really listen to her, ask her questions, make her feel safe…and special. Give her genuine and specific compliments, surprise her with “cute thinking of you texts” or “good morning texts”. Try to spend some time physically together. When you’re together, smile and hold eye contact with her. If after all this you still feel that she isn’t responding, then give her space and try meeting another girl. Sometimes you can do everything right, but if her heart is already taken the outcome is out of your hands. Good luck.

      • Thanks for your advice but she hardly pick my call . She picks it when she like and also even if make agreement for us to meet when the time reach if I call her she won’t pick my calls . But a times if I text her morning and night text message she reply my message once in a while but some of my friends said I should not let it be always . Well should I leave her and go on with another girl or I should continue texting her ?

        • Hmmmm the fact that she doesn’t pick up your calls is not a good sign (unless you are calling her during working hours, late at night or early in the morning). If on top of that she doesn’t answer your text messages, I would say she is not invested in the relationship and I would move on with someone new….

  9. Thank you a lot . Please can you give tips on how to make your chat interesting

    • You’re welcome! 🙂 The best way to keep a text conversation interesting is to show interest in your partner – listen (in this case read carefully their texts), ask questions and remember little details. Don’t tell them about mundane things or rant. Be playful, light and unexpected.
      Bisous x

  10. Can you send me some tips pls and also I need good night sms.

  11. Hi I want to send a sweet message to my lover ,she is Romanian .
    plz help me to make her day


    • Hi there,
      Thanks for your message! I assume that you live apart? You could send her something sweet like:
      “No matter where you are, I can feel you next to me…Miss you”

  12. Hi! I met this girl online about 5 years ago and we are still talking now. I would make the relationship work but the thing is she’s way far from where I live. I really do think she’s the one for me. I was wondering if there are things you think I could have made it work with her or whatever? And I plan on writing a letter to her am I a pussy for this? Excuse my bad language. Hope to hear back from you!

    • Hello,
      Thanks for your message! It sounds like a difficult situation (and no, you’re not weak!). It’s hard for me to tell you what to do without knowing more about your story…how often do you speak? do you speak on the phone/Skype or just by text? have you already met each other in person? Normally it’s best to talk about serious things (like feelings) face to face and not via text/email or letters. However if that’s not possible and you really feel these things for her, then go ahead and write her. However, before doing anything really BIG (like moving) I think you should definitely spend some time with her in person…

  13. hi,I met this girl few weeks ago and she’s just d kind of lady iv always dreamt of.we have been communicating on fone and physically and she’s been responding to my calls ,chats and messages. but d problem is that I feel so shy when ever I’m with her and I want to express my feelings to her but don’t no how to start and what to say.I feel so disappointed about that as just get stuck in d middle .pls can u advice me on what to say and how to say it as I don’t want to loose the girl and she’s just a perfect manifestation of my dreams.

    • Hello,
      I’m so happy to hear that you have met someone special! Please don’t stress yourself out over trying to say the perfect thing when you are with her. Most communication is non-verbal, meaning most of what you say is via your body language. Make eye contact, smile, lean in towards her when you are chatting, and ask her questions…
      The best way to make her interested in you, is to show that you are interested in her. Start out expressing your feelings slowly. Tell her thank you after a date and how much fun you had with her. Give her genuine compliments on something specific that you like about her (for example her silky hair or her beautiful voice).
      Sending you tons of positive energy.

    • tank u so much.
      I’ll follo d steps and see how it goes

  14. Hey Claudia u knw what I jst wanted to thank you for helping all of them.You are doing a great job.Jst keep going…

  15. Hi Claudia, I’ve Just started in a Relationship with a very nice Girl, Respectful and Humble.
    I really Love her, and I don’t want to mess thing up with her, cause the way she makes me feel.
    She is So beautiful 🙂
    Can u send me Steps on How to keep it Going and win her Heart every chance I get.
    Thank you

    • Hi Mlusi,
      It’s really nice to hear from you! I am happy to hear that you met a nice girl that you really love 🙂 The best way to make a relationship work is to really listen to her and be interested in her life, show her that you appreciate her (compliment her), let her know that you are thinking about her (send random “thinking of you” texts or sweet good morning or goodnight text messages) and don’t rant about your problems…save those rants for your good friends and family.

  16. Please there is this girl I just met 2weeks ago and I’m already in love with her but all she cares about is money but my question is.How do I make her fall in love with me as I am already in love with her???

    • Hi There,
      It’s really nice to hear from you! I have a few questions…first, are you comfortable dating a girl who only cares about money? What might happen if you didn’t have any someday? Would she still stay with you…or would she leave you? Just think about it…
      As far as attraction goes, there is nothing more sexy than a guy who is confident, authentic and funny. What’s one of the easiest ways to show her this? Tease her 🙂 Don’t be mean, but be playful…and challenge her and make her laugh.

  17. There was a guy who his mum wants him to marry her friend daughter. Although when she introduce the girl to him, the guy was single. Both of them study in the same country abroad, but not the same school and city. When he called the girl the first he introduce himself for a couple of minutes, then he continue talking to her which she even asked him to visit her that same week so that he will meet her elder bro and younger brother. He replied that he cannot make it because of his schedule in school and she said no problem. He called her the following day to greet her she ain’t pick his call nor call him back.The next day same thing happens. He leaves her for a while and he called her again, which she picked his call which they agree to meet during the weekend when the day of the appointment reach he called her but she didn’t pick his call the following day the same thing happen . He then decided to text her to know if all is well, but no response from her. He decides to remain mute for a while and change other tactics and see if should would change, his friend advised him to text her morning and night which things change as at that time she reply his text and pick his call if she is not around would call him back if she has call credit and if she don’t have she would ping him . She does that for a while and she later change again . People advise the guy to be patient. some ladies play hard to get and see how patient he is but things didn’t change she only pick when she want . She blocked him on her WhatsApp although they don’t chat , any time she picks his call she will attend to him as if nothing is going on . His friends later advice him to ask when should he call her ,she told him that she don’t have specific time anytime he called and she is less busy she will pick his call and if she is not she won’t pick . If you are in this shoes what will you do?

    • Hi Faruk,
      I would advise your friend to move on…from what you have written she is avoiding him. If she was truly interested in him she would give him a time to call her and she would not block him on what’s app.

  18. Hi, I met this lady colleague almost a year n a half ago and our work makes us connected almost everyday.Whenever I’m in office,we meet and chat and also share our personal lives with each other.She’s a bit older to me but she is absolute fun and matured. We are both married but individually aren’t happy but respecting our marriage is what keeping us bonded. I feel special in her company and she too relates and associates me the same. How do I express my love to her? Do I need to wait or should I go ahead?

    • Hi Sapukan,
      I’ve been thinking about your situation…and as you are both still married I wouldn’t pursue anything with her until you’ve decided what what you want to do with your marriage (and she has done the same). Otherwise you risk hurting yourself, her, your wife and her husband…

      • Yes, you’re right…I just thought since our feelings are platonic and we have a long way to go, I’m just leaving it to time and the nature as how it goes; after all we need to accept what comes…we just live once but forever.

  19. Hi cox, I met a girl of recent. She’s a best friend elder sister and I’m so much interested in her plus she always tell me how much she likes me, but no strings attach. How can I make her love and have feelings for me? Looking forward to hearing back from you. Thanks

    • Hi Brian,
      I hope you are having a fun weekend! I would suggest keeping things playful and not getting too serious at first – tease her, compliment her and show an interest in her (and her life) by asking questions. Avoid boring text conversations such as: “what’s up” “nothing” “I’m so bored”…and sending her anything negative “today sucked!” “I hate my job” etc. Instead, make her feel special by sending her genuine and specific compliments. For example “beautiful, funny and the best salsa dancer ever…can’t wait to find out more :)”

  20. Hey, there’s this new girl that im, just hitting on and she seems a little hard to get do you any ideas?

    • Hi Mo’slim,
      It’s nice to hear from you! 🙂 I don’t know the details of your story, however unless you know her well in real life, the first thing you need to do before asking her to meet up is make her feel safe. So I would send a few playful, yet not sexual text messages, ask her to speak on the phone (or Skype) and then ask her out.

  21. I jus got a girl whom I knw likes me so much, buh she got angry wit me because i pissed her off some months back, pls can u send me a heart touching apologetic message I could send to her. #thanks

  22. I met this guy on line a month ago and I liked him,now I’m begining to love him but I don’t know about him I’m so sure he likes me very much and always talk about us getting married but I can’t say if he’s joking or serious about it,how do. I proceed….

    • Hi Bukola,
      It’s really nice to hear from you! 🙂 Have you already met him in person? If not, make sure that you meet up with him very soon (before you develop strong feelings for him and could be disappointed if he is not who he seems to be). Everyone is different, but one month is pretty fast to start talking about marriage. Love takes time…I would schedule dates to get to know each other. To have fun. And how can you tell if what he is saying is true or not? His actions. Does he call you just to hear your voice? Does he remember specific things that you told him? How does he make you feel when you are together? Safe? Beautiful? Interesting?
      Good luck!

  23. This is amazing! I really love what I’m reading here Claudia. Learning a lot

  24. Hi..i got two women in my life which i love both in Nigeria the other in New York…what should i do .please can i hear from

    • Hi Delaney,
      It is nice to hear from you 🙂 Gosh, it’s hard for me to tell you what to do in this complicated situation as I don’t know very much about the women, or you. I would think about it in depth. Where do you want to live your life? Where is your family? Are you ready to move to another country away from your family and friends? Will you be able to find work there? Why do you love these women? There are a lot of things that you should consider before making a move…

  25. My boyfriend is the best thing that has happened to me i just want a really heart melting paragraph to send him.

    • Hi Brenda,
      I’m happy to hear that you found an amazing guy 🙂 One of the biggest compliments you can give anyone is just letting them know that you are thinking about them. So, send him a thinking of you text at some random time during the day. You could send him something like:
      “Just thinking about you and how I can’t wait to be cozy in your arms again…”

  26. hi, there is this gal we r together in school, iam soo madly luv n also respect but i fear to tell her so, iam very disturbed person, please a beg for your advice on hw to approach her

    • Hi Kips,
      Just take is slowly…Are you friends with any of her friends? Do you have any classes together? Try to find some way that you are connected, and then see if you can approach her when she is not in a large group, so you have the chance to speak. Don’t worry about having the perfect ice breaker or pick up line. Just say hello, smile and look her in the eyes, then ask her a question (such as her opinion on something or her help with something). Relax. She is probably just as nervous as you are!

  27. Hi, pls there is this guy am going out with, I love him so much but his kind of saying that am not romantic with him.

    • Dear Happiness,
      You could send him some random thinking of you messages, a genuine & sincere compliment, or a photo of you dressed up for work or getting ready to go out (men are visual and love photos). You could also leave him a voice message – there are so many ways you could inject a little romance into your relationship. Let me know if you would like more ideas 🙂

  28. Dear Claudia Cox,
    I met this guy by online, and he lives miles away from me. We’ve been a friend and felt nothing more than that. Even we lost contact sometimes cause of our own life. After a year our communication being more intense and we spend hours by calling via Skype. We realized about our feeling and we said love each other. I do love him and I knew how much he loves me. After several months, our relationship went to down since he started to tell his mom about us. His mom said a big NO about us. At the first time he said to me that he can handle that situation, day by day his brother in law started to know about our relationship and all of his family. I guessed he felt so stressed. His family said if he wanted to be with me he should leave his family. Finally he said to me that this relationship won’t work. And we broke up. At the first time it hurted me so much and I always think it’s unfair. We made promises and dreaming a lot. But I didn’t let my self going down. I tried as hard as I can to be strong and avoiding him. Sometimes he kept texting me and said some cute and sweet things in a sadness. Every time he did it I can’t control my self and it driving me crazy. Even I only gave a short answer, I’m going to be sad again.Maybe we are loving each other still.
    is there still any hope?
    should I forget him?


    • Dear Bariuzama,
      It sounds like a very difficult situation, one where you are up against his entire family. I can’t make the decision for you from what you told me. However, if you decide to try further with him be careful. Texting is dangerous because you can create an image of someone in your head…their text messages invade your mind and follow you throughout the day. At this point you need to protect yourself. If his text messages are making you upset, then ask him to stop texting you for awhile. Then, either copy and paste all his text messages into an email (to save them for the future – there might be some great ideas in there) and then press delete. It will save you from re-reading his messages and feeling sad each time…
      Let me know if I can help. I have been in this situation so many times and I know it’s very hard.

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  30. Hi there claudi, im Dave and I’ve had a crush on this girl for like 1 year, i love her so much, i dont know how we can be together, unfortunately she has a boyfriend and i dont know how it’ll work, can u give me some advice please?

    • Hi Dave,
      Unfortunately, if she has a boyfriend, I don’t don’t see how it can work out for you at the moment. I know it’s hard, but even if you really like her, I would focus on meeting other girls. If one day you are both single at the same time, then you could see if you are a good match or not. But a girl who is already in a relationship is just going to bring you heartache and problems 🙁
      Stay strong.

  31. Hello Claudia
    There’s this girl I met around September last year, I really love her,she told me she loves me too we use to talk for hours on phone also we enjoy eachothers company. All of a sudden came along this awkward silence after sending text messages without getting any replies. I called several times and when she answer the phone she gives me attitude like I don’t even mean a thing to her, I asked her if I’d done something wrong and she said I didn’t do anything wrong but she still give me that attitude. Now I think I’ve just been wasting my time. Should I just find Love elsewhere or should still wait till she get some sense, or what should do?

    • Hi there,
      I’m sorry that she is treating you like that. I would definitely find love elsewhere, because one of three things is happening 1) she met someone else and doesn’t have the courage to tell you so she is being mean hoping that you will leave her alone 2) she is emotionally unavailable 3) she is playing games
      In any case, I think you are wasting your time and energy. I know it’s hard, but I would stop communicating with her and try to meet someone new.
      Stay strong! Bisous xx

  32. I like a girl, we talk but less often.
    She is least interested in chatting, and doesn’t open much.
    I want us to be together.
    Please help

    • Hi Tivoli,
      If she doesn’t like to text, I would suggest meeting her in person more often and trying to create a connection face to face. Then use specifics from your conversations, and moments together in your text messages to make this connection even stronger. If this doesn’t seem to work, then I would move on…relationships should be 50/50 and if she is not willing to make the effort then it will never work.

  33. Hi Claudia Cox Nice to hear from you anyway I have meet this guy with good ideas which i will like to get to know more about him lifestyle happy work things he does way back and more how should i go about that

    • Hi Rose,
      It’s nice to hear from you! 🙂 Are you connected with him on Social Media? If so, take a look at his page and then ask him some questions about his interests based on his photos. I would mix up the way you communicate – text, call, video call and of course try and meet him in person. Keep your messages positive, take your time and most importantly HAVE FUN!

  34. Are you in a relationship? Or do you just guess at what works

  35. I met this girl last night for the first time and she was so nice to me gave me her number but i was just speechless didn’t know what to say to got lost middle of our covo as she had beautiful smile on face the whole time we where talking but don’t know how to start a phone convo this morning as i want to ask out any on should i do how do i start what to say to her in text message this morning

    • Hey there,
      If you got lost in her smile…then start your text message off with something related to her beautiful smile
      “you dimple when you smile – adorable :)” “I would love to see you again! How about…”

  36. Hello! I’m in a tricky situation I guess. The guy I like lives a couple of states away, and I only talk to him online (Twitter, Instagram, live streams) I was wondering if you coukd maybe email me and help me think of ways to get his attention?

  37. Hi,
    I met a guy and we kept chatting everyday, we met a few times and we kissed and “stuff”. Then the next day, he just said that he wasn’t sure about his sexuality and feeling towards me. We still hang out like once a week and chat everyday, though I am always the one who initiates the chat everytime. He asked me out for a dinner once after that and I asked twice. He actually said he wanted to be friends with me for now. We do not live close to each other, like 30-45mins by train. Do you think there might be some chance for me that we could be more than friends? I am so confused now as I do like him. I am getting lots of mixed signals from him.

    • Hi Paul,
      It sounds like he is not ready for a relationship at the moment (if he is still unsure of his sexuality and his feelings towards you). From what you’ve written I have the impression that you really like him, so if I was in your position I would not invest too much energy trying to figure out what his motives are, and if you have a chance to be together as you are just going to get hurt. Let him know that you think he is a wonderful person and you would love to see if you would be a good couple, and that he should get in touch with you after he has time to figure things out. Then, I would spend my time and energy trying to meet other guys and working on things that make you happy.
      Good luck!

  38. Hello. I have this new girl as a friend. I met her in the state I M serving presently… I got interested in her so I send her text messages morning and night but no response. She invites me to her shop almost everyday, we gist laugh, smile and play together. We both love this and she make sure before leaving her shop she ask me if I would come over to her shop the next day.. She had never for once missed my calls and she also call me once in a while thou bit don’t forget she doesn’t reply text messages. I need to no if she is in for me cuz she don’t text back. And also I need a heart warming text that would wrap her heart and makes her know I really feel for her.

    • Hi Stephen,
      If she keeps asking you to stop by and see her in person then I think she is probably interested in you…she just might not like texting. It sounds like she prefers phone calls, so I would keep stopping by her shop, calling her and letting your relationship build up slowly…

  39. Hi Claudia,
    I met this guy online a month ago n we r in the same college. We chat all most everyday talking about our days,…. We haven’t met yet. He often tells me to invite him for a drink on campus when I’m around. recently, He told to feel free to invite him for a drink. Should I do that if he is not showing me that he’s interested?

    • Hi Michelle,
      If he keeps asking you to invite him for a drink when you are around then I would. Meeting him in person is the best way to judge his interest. Check the usual signs – eye contact, touching your arm for no reason at all, being unusually attentive. Just to make sure that you are safe (as you don’t know a lot about him) I would meet him in a public place.
      Good luck!

      • Hello Claudia,
        I met this girl I really like but I have difficult holding conversation on phone and she is one of those girls that don’t like questions.
        How do I get through to her? I admire her a lot and will like to date her.

        • Hi Enigma,
          Some people aren’t really chatty on the phone (I’m one of them 🙂 so I completely understand. If she’s shy, take your time. Be consistent. Send her fun, interesting texts about things that she’s interested. Compliment her on cool things she’s doing. Then, take your text conversations to in person conversations. If she is not a big talker, plan activity dates – such as a cooking class, an art exhibition, sports.
          I hope everything works out with you! Let me know if I can help.

  40. Hello Claudia,

    Thank you for your advice. Hope to find him a nice guy!

  41. How

    • Hi Bella,
      I hope you are doing well during this difficult time. Pick a goal and then try personalizing one of the text message ideas. I’m sure you will brighten your special someone’s day!

  42. Hi Claudia…I trust u fine? She’s aware have been chasing her for 3yrs now. But unfortunately I lost contact with her for 10 months didn’t hear from her. I decided to moved on with my life. Was at home during the lockdown period on February when I received a text from her…was a surprised to me cause I thought she has forgotten all about me. From her she wanted to check on me. But I still made my proposal known to her by asking her “do i still have a place in her heart” from her respond she said “I deserve it” is that a YES from her?
    And i plan of meeting her soon by buying a flower for her to officially ask her to be my girlfriend…please any advice for me?

    Hope to hear from u soon…thanks!

    • Hi Frank,
      It’s so nice to hear from you! Her response sounds promising! Are you texting with her regularly? Are you sure that she is single? Does she seem ready to put effort into the relationship? Or do you think she might just disappear again? Just some things to keep in mind…
      I think the flower is a nice idea, but I don’t think you need to rush into asking her to be your girlfriend the first time you see her – unless you feel with the daily conversation that the time is right – only you can make that decision. Try to spend some quality time with her in person – do activities together and try to build your connection back up after the 10 month break. I hope everything works out for you, and I’m always here if you need anything.

  43. wow this a cool message I love it

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