So what’s the secret?
The first of our dating tips is:
keep everything in perspective.
The more balanced your life is, the happier you are with your friends, career, family and even yourself. Do you like who is looking back at you from the mirror?
If the answer is yes, that inner confidence will show on the outside, which is the most attractive thing you own.
Our next dating tip is to
live your own life.
If diligently watching out for “the One” is the only thing on your agenda, you will probably not find the type of partner you are looking for. Being needy never seems to attract the person you so desperately crave. So what can you do? Take a step back and realise that they could appear anywhere, and if they are a keeper, they will appreciate the fact that you have a life that doesn’t just revolve around them.
Your search for love will be more fun, productive and rewarding if balance is put front and center. When you’re bored at work, you’re checking your phone for that all-important acknowledgement from your partner. You wait, you stew, you contemplate if they are playing games, and you wonder what they are doing. If this is all you think about, it will end up making you crazy and killing your chances at finding the one.
Another of our dating tips is:
do not lose track of your friends.
Often people struggle to remember their friends when they’re wrapped up in dating. These are the people who were there before you had this wondrous man in your life and will be your shoulder to cry on if, sadly, all goes wrong. So get out there and pay them the afternoon they deserve – don’t be glued to your partner (or your phone) 24/7.
One of the most important dating tips we can give you is to
be happy with yourself first and foremost.
Second guessing someone’s motives due to your own insecurities is a sure-fire way to drive yourself crazy or push your new guy away in the early stages of a relationship. Alternatively, it can make you a doormat, accepting standards that are well less than you deserve.
Remember not to put all your eggs in one basket when it comes to life and love. Reflect on what’s important to you, and your partner should add to that. Hopefully these dating tips can help you keep that all-important balance in your life and love.
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