Sending apology text messages requires a strategic approach. The content and tone of the text depends on both what you did wrong, and whom you’re dealing with. Some people respond best to humor, while others are offended by anything that’s not heartfelt. Then there are the sassy, playful people who like to turn a sorry into something sexy…
Read on for tips for writing a winning apology text message no matter what your approach – sweet, funny, or sexy.
Sweet Apology Text Messages
The sweet approach is the most standard plan of attack and will work with just about anyone. What are the keys to pulling off a good apology? Show remorse. Be Sincere. Make an effort to break the iciness between you.
Apology Text Messages…A Few Examples:
“I’m so sorry. You deserve to be treated better than that. I hope you can forgive me.”
“I feel terrible that I hurt you. Can we talk about it?”
“I’m sorry. You can’t stay mad at these puppy-dog eyes, can you?”
Funny Texts To Make Them Laugh Into Your Arms
Tread with care when sending humorous style messages. If you did something really horrible, making light of the situation will only increase the bad blood between you. However, if it was something banal (like forgetting to buy milk), or stress related (maybe your partner just “lost it” when they heard you laughing rather loudly in front of the TV), then humorous apology text messages might be just what the doctor ordered.
Examples:
“Yikes, sorry about that. It’s okay if you want to come over and glare at me for a while.”
“Savor these words because you will never see me write them again:My bad, I was in the wrong, I’m sorry.”
“I kind of owe you an apology, I guess. Maybe. Sort of.”
Sexy Apology Text Messages
Admitting that you’re wrong and offering yourself up to the hurt party is one way to quickly be forgiven. Depending on your relationship, you can play with sexy apology text messages that turn a mistake into an opportunity for flirty fun.
Examples:
“Would some chocolate dipped strawberries and a warm oil massage help you to forgive me?”
“I’m so sorry. I totally deserve a spanking.”
“Sorry baby. Don’t worry. I’ll make it up to you tonight.”
Sending just the right apology text message can quickly erase any hard feelings brewing between you and your special someone. Always take a few minutes to think about the situation, then pick your flavor: sweet, funny, or sexy.
Texting is a great way to stay connected with your partner. Even if calling them during a busy day to apologize isn’t possible, finding a quiet moment to send something personal is almost always doable.
If you are interested in learning more about masterful texting and putting all the odds in your favor every time you press the Send button, then check out my eBook French Seduction Made Easy. This fun, creative program will teach you the art of texting with the French touch. It will show you how to ignite or re-ignite the flame of passion in your relationship.
Best of all, it will keep this flame burning as hot as if you were walking arm in arm on a romantic midnight stroll through the streets of Paris…
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I am 11 years old and I messed up on a guy I like by swearing at the teacher and everyone was stearing at me I need help
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Hi Grace,
I’m sorry to hear what happened 🙁 While you can’t go back and change it, you can try to be your best every day. Make him notice you in a good way – do something kind for someone – or even your whole class by bringing in home made cookies or something special 🙂
Bisous
Claudia
Hi, am Anthony and am 20yrs old. I need help me a girl I messed up with. I shouted at her cause I have issues with my anger management. Now she hates me so much and I have tried everything possible to apologize but she hates me even more. Can anyone help me.
Hi Anthony,
If you have tried apologizing and she is even more upset, give her some time. Stop apologizing, leave her alone for a while and then when she has had a chance to forgive you, show her through your actions that you are kind. Rebuilding trust takes time.
Bisous
Claudia
Heyy im 19 years old and i have a crush on a girl but these days wasnt going well with her… i was kinda not answering her much bcz of my rl probs any idea how to apologise for her?
Hey there,
I would not apologize via text, instead I would invite her to do something fun in person. Make it a surprise, and tailor it to something she likes – such as going to her favorite coffee shop, etc.
Bisous
Claudia
Hi, I put up an attitude and when my bf said something that annoyed me, I walked out on him.i apologised and he said he has forgiven me .only for him to break up with me 3days later. Saying he doesnt have feelings for me anymore. I’ve been begging him for 3days but he has been ignoring me. I really love him and i. Scared that I might lose him. Help please
Hi Bella,
I think the best thing you can do is give it some time. You already apologized to him, so if you keep apologizing, you are just going to drive him away further. The next time you see him in person, be positive, polite and have a normal conversation with him (something not related to your fight) then see where it goes…
Bisous
Claudia
Hi i was rude to this one girl that i call on the phone at a unaporopiate time like 12:37am. This girl is a crush but she have no feelings towards me. I kept calling and asking her can i call her bae and she repeatedly said no and i ignore her and saying stuff like she gonna be bae anyways and she hung up. Right then there i shouldve call back and apologize but i didnt she texted me that morning to tell me i was very rude towards her and she thought i would call back and apologize. I honestly didnt mean anyharm. Whem i see her face to face i never call her bae,boo or any of those words. Afterwards i texted her i truly deeply sorry i was but she didnt respond. I texted her the next day to ask for her forgiveness and to accept my apology but she didnt respond. What should i do? I regret that she had to tell me i was rude instead of calling her right back to apologize
Hi Cordell,
I would let it go for awhile…next time you see her just try and be polite. Give it some time and hopefully she will forget about it.
Bisous,
Claudia
hi am Nathaniel i need a serious help…my best friend came to spend the night with me and we had sex now she is bad at me…don’t no what to do and i dont what to miss owr friendship please help me
Hi Nathaniel,
First, you need to decide if you want her to be your girlfriend or your friend. If you think what happened was a mistake, and you just want to be friends, then you should speak to her in person (never by text). Tell her exactly what you wrote me – that you care about her as a friend and that you don’t want to mess up your friendship. Then, give it some time (maybe she secretly likes you). If you decide that you would like her to be your girlfriend then you should also talk to her in person. She is probably just confused at the moment and is waiting to see how you will react.
Good luck!
Bisous
Claudia
Hi am fela I asked a nurse taking care of my dad out during his sickness, and now he’s mad at and we’ve been friends before asking her out. Pls help me
Hey there,
I would just explain to your dad that you knew her before – that she is not only his nurse, she is your friend, a really good person and someone you are interested in dating…being honest is the best way to go. If he is still upset, ask him why and then talk it out.
Bisous
Claudia
Am 20years old i have a problem with my girlfriend which will lead to separation an i have gave her all apology but she keep on saying dat she can’t come back again an she didn’t want me to call her again what will i do pls help me
Hi Samson,
Sometimes the best thing is time – if she is really upset, then let her cool off. Now that 10 days has gone by, reach out to her and ask her if she would meet you for something neutral in the middle of the day – like a coffee, tea or ice cream. Don’t try to fix the problem via text, or even via phone – meeting face to face is the best option. When you meet, tell her again why you are sorry, then try to move on to something positive after you have discussed it (don’t beat a dead horse)
Good luck!
Bisous
Claudia
I hung up on my boyfriend because he said he had to go and it got quiet on the other end so I just thought hang up. I feel terrible because I feel like I hurt him and that hurts me. He isn’t responding to my texts and I didn’t even here from him. This isn’t the first time I have hung up on him but I always call back or he does but this time I didn’t call back because he started texting me! I don’t know what to do I really need help. I don’t want to lose him!
Hi Deja,
If he isn’t responding to your text messages or answering your calls, it possible to see him in person and talk to him face to face? If not you could leave a note on his car, or send him a note in the mail. Tell him that you miss him and you’re sorry for the misunderstanding and that you want to speak in order to clear things up.
Good luck!
Bisous,
Claudia
I got a girls number and then we sat there awkwardly for about 2 minutes looking at the ground before she walked away. that was 3 weeks ago and we text a lot but she doesn’t want to see me and i think its because of that, i was wondering if i should just move on or if it is salvageable (were in highschool)
I was struggling with some stuff at the time so I wasn’t quite myself but she doesnt know that
Hi Caleb,
I doubt it was because of that, because she still wants to chat with you (so she definitely finds you interesting). Maybe she has some stuff going on in her life right now and isn’t ready for a relationship. If you enjoy texting with her, continue, but don’t be disappointed if she just remains a pen pal. I would also try to meet other girls…
Bisous
Claudia
I left my ex too many times in the past because of trust issues. We were in a LDR and after coming back home after seeing her one time. I caught her talking and giving attention to other men on FB and Skype. I have had a hard time of not getting her attention as much so I would react. There’s the back thought. Any how fast forward 2 years, we got back together but a week later I would see her go on and off in FB around 2-3am. I tried to confront her about working on our communication but all she said was were fine and we don’t have to talk every second. In my eyes if a woman is really into you. You both would make time for each other. I broke up with her and she got all upset and called me selfish. She never considered why I was upset. I tried to apologize but all she said was I broke her heart too much. Is there anyway I could tell her how sorry I am? I really love this woman and I feel like I lost control of just wanting to talk to her and just snapped. She told me she is moving on. I told her I hope to see her happy one day. Just so stressed right now.
Hi Chris,
It sounds like it has been a very emotional period of time for both of you – between the break ups and getting back together. I would try to see her face to face, tell her exactly how you feel – why you were upset about the late night Skype/FB conversations with other people, what type of relationship you would like to have, how you would like to communicate, etc. and then give it some time (let her think things over). After a few weeks, text her something upbeat and interesting and start a new conversation. Don’t text/talk about the past and try to build something new.
Good luck!
Bisous x
Claudia
I unfortunately had moved in with my boyfriend very quickly due to situations with his previous living arrangements,but he had two other people move in with him, which in return had given me stress,I did not think about talking to him because I know he was under stress as well, the house fell through, we both got sick and could notwork, as a result we lost the house.Now I decided it was a good time to check up on facebook,and one of his friends from years ago is posting something about meeting up, I wouldn’t have a problem if I didn’t see lovey dovey emojis,and him heart reacting all of her photos,I trust him,I had a few drinks and wrote him 15 long paragraphs about how I felt, I even told Him I think were not right, In return he read all of them and never replied, I already apologized but It was half hearted and childish.
Hi Cat,
I’m sorry to hear about everything you have been through recently…it sounds like a tough time. Things will turn around, stay strong. If you really love him then try and speak to him in person and apologize to his face. After that, there is nothing else you can really do…the decision to forgive and forget is his. I hope that everything goes well for you. Sending you lots of positive energy.
Bisous
Claudia
Hi, my name is Zoe, and I’m 12 years old. Last night my friend and I got into a small fight because I told some people in my class that he liked me because I really thought he did. Anyway, he got mad at me and then he said over text “if I don’t text you back why do you keep texting me?” I haven’t said anything to him since and he hasn’t either. I tried apologizing, but I know when he’s mad and he is still mad. What do I do please help me.
Dear Zoe,
Let some time go by so he can cool off. You didn’t do anything horribly wrong – I’m sure he will forget about it. If you still haven’t spoken to him in a few weeks, send him a friendly text message ending in a question (so you have a bigger chance he will text you back).
I definitely wouldn’t keep apologizing to him right now, it’s only just going to make things worse.
Bisous
Claudia
Hello I need some help. I messed up with a girl who I had a lot in common with. I was rude to her through text text messaging assuming that she was playing games with me and was ignoring my texts. Me and her were cool at first until this happened. I tried giving her some space and texted her saying sorry but no response. I decided to give myself some time to relax and focus on myself. Last week I saw her in Anime club and was a little afraid to speak to her because I thought she might frown at me but turns out she didn’t. I haven’t talked to her since March and would like to hang out with her again. What should I do? Should I say sorry the next time I see her, send her an apology message because I still have her number, or just move on?
Hi Kafele,
Since a lot of time has passed, and she seems to have moved on, I wouldn’t bring it up again. I would just send her a normal message saying that it was nice seeing her and ask her what she’s up to this weekend. Leave the past in the past. If she wants to talk about it – do it face to face.
Good luck! I hope it goes well 🙂
Bisous,
Claudia
So are you saying to just send her a random text out of nowhere?
And to not bring up the past unless she wants to talk about it?
Hi Kafele,
Exactly! I would not bring up what happened in March unless she wants to talk about it. The last time you saw her she was smiling and friendly…so why go back to something negative? Instead I would send her a text about something you spoke about in Anime club.
Bisous
Claudia
Thanks for the advice. I was thinking one day when I’m not busy to send her a text saying hi and if she wants to hang out again or the very next time I see her to be positive and start a random fun conversation. Its like you said she’s probably over it by now.
I really liked this guy but we started talking at the end of a horrible breakup. I didn’t know it at the time but I had fallen in love with him and he was everything I wanted in a guy but I felt pressured by him because all he wanted to do was help and I snapped at him and told him I didn’t want anything to do with Him pretty much. I have cried about it now for months because this guy actually could’ve been the one now that I’m recovered from my bad break up I’m completely back on my feet and independent now. But he doesn’t want anything to do with me what do I do?
Hi Amber,
First of all, I would find out if he is in a relationship right now or not. Then, if he is single, I would try and reconnect with him via the same channel that you met him through in the first place (for example friends, a club, etc). When you contact him, bring up something that you chatted about in the past – it could be a funny picture, quote, song, event, etc. Make sure the topic is positive and it makes sense that it would make you think of him (not just something random). Don’t get into a long conversation about what happened via text. Instead, wait until you meet him in person. Then, tell him what happened if he asks. If not, try to build up a solid connection with him again…knowing that it will take time, and your actions will need to be consistent for him to trust you in the future.
Good luck!
Bisous
Claudia
im 12 years old and i really love my boyfriend and everything was going well until one time we got in a little arguement over facetime and he said he has to go and that we’ll talk later. he hung up but i knew he didn’t have to go anywhere. i said hi the next day over text and he read it right away but didnt reply. a couple hours later i asked him again and he read it again and didn’t reply. i asked him if something was wrong and he read it and again didn’t reply i tried calling him but he just hangs up. i love him alot and im scared that somethings gonna happen to us. its been 2days and i told him im worried and i want to know why he’s not answering and he replied “fine ill tell you, im mad at you”. and i said im sorry and can we talk about it, he read this but didn’t reply. i dont know what else to do to get him to talk about it and im scared. please help as soon as possibleee!! -jess
Hi Jess,
I’m sorry to hear that you had a fight with your boyfriend. For the moment, I wouldn’t do anything more than what you have done, I would just give him some space. Let him talk to you about whatever upset him when he is ready. The more you ask, the more you are going to push him away. I know it’s hard when you really like someone, but just try and be patient.
Sending tons of positive energy your way
xx Claudia
I need help I was playing too rough with a female friend during school and I dislocated her shoulder and now she is really mad at me
Hi there,
I’m sorry to hear what happened…I would suggest buying her a little “get well” present and checking in to see how she is doing. You can’t change what happened, but you can show through your actions that you care and that you are truly sorry.
I hope it goes well.
Bisous x
Claudia
Hi, I’m Josephine. My bf is really mad with me because he told someone about me and when the person asked if I had a bf I told them no. Now he’s saying he still love me but can’t trust me anymore neither forget what happened. I really love him and can’t afford loosing him.
Hi Josephine,
I’m sorry to hear what happened…If you have already apologized (in person) I would let it go. Now, focus on showing him with your actions that he can trust you, and that you love him. Surprise him with something special – like a home cooked dinner or an evening out. Remind him of the fun times you had together with a throwback photo on SM (if you are both active on SM) and then write something sweet about him and how lucky you are to have him as your bf. And most of all…give it time. Trust takes time to rebuild.
Bisous xo
Claudia
Thanks, I will do just that.
Hi,
I did write here the last time, and the reply I got was so helpful. I did what you advice me to do and we are back together and so happy.
Thank you so much
Hi Josephine,
Thank you so much for letting me know, I’m so happy that I could help! 🙂
Sending tons of positive energy your way!
xo
Claudia
I had a crush on this girl since 6th grade. We were in the same school till 10th. After that we never met. It’s been 4-5 years now. Back in school I could never talk to her. I was shy type of a guy. Now she has accepted my follow request on Instagram. But she didn’t follow back. So the only way I can talk to her is by texting her. I actually want to apologise her because when we were in school, everybody used to tease me by her name. Now I feel sorry for her. How do I apologize to her
Hi Aniket,
I wouldn’t try to apologize to her via text for something that happened many years ago. Instead, I would try to spark a fun, light conversation with her based on stuff she’s doing now (for example what she’s posting on Insta). Once you have a good connection, ask her to meet up in person, then you can casually bring up what happened and tell her that you still feel bad about it today.
I hope everything works out for you! Let me know if I can help.
Bisous
Claudia
Was going through a weird time in life after I left a job for another only to be mistreated by the people at the new place ended up leaving that place also. While I was texting this one girl I just decided to stop talking to everyone entirely including the girl I was texting. I Had some self pity / serious trust issues with all the stuff going on that I didn’t know how to deal with and I feel that I just needed time to like not talk to anyone. She did not deserve to be ignored to the point of not talking to me. I don’t know how to apologize but I want to for this one person.
Hi Mikey,
I’m sorry to hear what happened…I would start out by sending her a simple apology text message telling her sorry that you went MIA, that you were going through a tough time at work, that you really enjoyed texting her, and you feel bad for how it ended. Add at the end that you would like to meet with her in person to explain the situation…and then take it from there. Hopefully she is an understanding person and will accept your apology and meet with you. Whatever you do, I would avoid going into details via text, or it could get messy.
I hope that everything works out for you!
Bisous
Claudia
Hey so I got in this huge fight with my friend and she won’t stop sending me hateful things and videos saying I should go kill myself. I understand her being frustrated and mad and I want to apologize but I feel after how she responded to us fight that she didn’t deserve a full apologize. So I need your help on how to apologize without being to “nice” per say if that makes any sense. Lol. Or do I not even apologize and just block her
Hi Angelina,
If she is sending you hate messages and telling you to go kill herself, then you should block her right away! She has some serious anger management issues and sounds like a very toxic person that you should distance yourself from ASAP.
Bisous
Claudia
Hi ,IAM habeeb I have a crush on a girl and at first a I flirt with her then the next day I just propose her and she was asking about her friends that how he is… And she is now mad at me because I flirt with her before proposal and what should I do now…? Should I apologize for flirting…?
Hi Habeeb,
I’m not sure I understand the situation. When you say that you proposed, did you ask her to be your girlfriend or your wife? I don’t think that flirting with her before asking her to be your girlfriend is wrong, as long as you did it in a tasteful way (not being overly sexual or making her feel uncomfortable). In fact, I think it’s normal for a guy to flirt with a girl before asking her out…I mean, it’s the best way to see if she is receptive and she likes you, or if you should move on. I would speak to her face to face and tell her that you had liked her for a long time (then give some specific reasons why you liked her – her kindness, her sense of humor, etc.) and tell her that you were nervous asking her out, so you were flirting with her to see if you had a chance. Tell her that you are so happy having her as your girlfriend, and you want to make her happy. I think the most important thing is to have open and honest communication with her. Find out what makes her uncomfortable and what makes her happy while making her feel secure about your true feelings for her.
I hope that everything works out for you. I’m always here if I can help.
Bisous
Claudia
My bf and I had a huge fight. He thinks I’m psycho because I call and text too much. I say I’ll stop but I can’t seem to control it. Now he’s broke up with me and not speaking to me even though he said we could work it out. I’m confused and don’t know what to do! Please help. I want him back
Hi Danielle,
I’m sorry to hear what happened. It sounds like he needs some space and apologizing is just making it worse. I would suggest not contacting him for at least a few days and then try to speak to him in person. Tell him how you feel about him and promise that you will not text and call him so much in the future…then keep your word. Ask him about his communication preferences. How many texts and calls is too much for him? Everyone is different, and it’s an important conversation to have. If you feel the need to call him, call someone else like your best friend. If you feel the need to text him, either text someone else, or write in the notes section of your phone what you wanted to text him and don’t send it. You probably just got into the habit of calling and texting too much and need to change your habits.
I hope everything works out for you! Let me know if I can help more.
Bisous
Claudia
Hai!I breakup with my boyfriend that I dated him for 2 month. He called me at his house for the weekend and when we were making love I just start bleeding cause I just finished my period 2 days back,and he was so angry,I try everything to make him understand but he refused to understand me that I wasn’t bleeding when I came to you, but nothing change,he just pretend to be happy the hole night, in the morning escort me to the buses. And from there he never replied to my text and there is this day I called him asking him to forgive me but he just told me he’s not in the mood of talking with me,.but I real want him back and forgive me.
Dear Mariah,
I’m really sorry to hear about the situation with your boyfriend. What happened isn’t your fault and he shouldn’t be treating you this way. The fact that he is not even willing to speak to you on the phone or answer your texts should be a huge red flag. Do you really want to be with someone who treats you this way? Things happen in life, and you deserve a partner who is willing to work through them with you. Even if it’s really hard, I would stop texting him and calling him and wait for him to apologize.
Stay strong!
Bisous,
Claudia
There was this girl. She used to like me as well. We texted ate out and all. But i have a habit and i used to criticize and belittle her many times and she went cold. We suddenly stopped all contact. Its been a year since. Please help what must I send her over text. I want her back. Im sorry for what I did to her and wont do that again.
Hi Michael,
I’m sorry to hear what happened… If you are interested in getting in contact with her again, then I would start out slow. I would send her a simple text message saying hi and maybe include a photo or a link to something you know that she likes and tell her that it made you think about her. End your text with a question. For example, if she is a runner, you could send her a photo of some new cool running shoes and then ask her if she is doing any races, etc. If she responds then keep the conversation going, and find a way to tell her that you miss her and are sorry for the way things ended. Keep your apology brief via text and don’t make it the focus of your conversation. Instead, try to chat about positive things, and when you feel the time is right, ask her to meet you in person. When you finally meet, then you can give her a heart felt apology for the way you acted.
I hope everything works out for you!
Bisous xo
Claudia
Thank you so much Claudia ! It helped.
Hi Michael,
I’m so happy to hear that! 🙂 I hope everything works out with her.
Bisous,
Claudia
There is this really close boy in my school and he is like my bestest guy friend and he has previously given me signs he like me and told me 2 time but i took it as a joke, the 3rd time which was recently he told me and i asked him why he didnt tell me before. He didnt tell me before because he was scared. after that i did something which got him really angry and in school face to face he would avoid me and not talk and when i text him he doesnt EVER reply he airs me… i reallllyyy dont know what to doo
Hi there,
The next time you see him in school pull him aside so you can talk to him privately. Tell him that you are really sorry about what you did and that you miss him. Ask him what you can do to make it up. You could even surprise him with a homemade cookie and tell him that it’s not much, but you were hoping that you could call it a truce…if he doesn’t want to talk then don’t push it. Maybe he needs some time. Wait a few weeks and then text him something funny that you know he’d like and then tell him that it made you think of him and that you miss his friendship. If he still doesn’t respond, let it go. It just means that he is immature and not ready to be a good friend…because true friends accept apologies. Everyone makes mistakes.
Good luck!
Bisous
Claudia
hi , i’m zak I have break up with my girlfriend after 6 months
we broke up cause to some problems i’ m trying to apologize to her but she didn’t accept it
i want her back please help
Hi Zak,
I’m really sorry to hear that you broke up with your girlfriend. People are much likier to accept an apology if it has these 3 things
– acknowledge what you did wrong
– tell her how you will change, or how you will make sure it doesn’t happen in the future
– ask her to forgive you
Make sure that you explain all of these things to her in a sincere way…and in person. You could text or call her to arrange a meet up, but I would definitely advice speaking to her face to face.
Good luck!
Claudia
Hi, I’m 13 years old boy in 7th grade. I think I messed up in the worst way possible. So this girl was new in 3rd grade and was in my class 3rd through 5th. When 5th grade ended I had to leave to a new city. Now, a few months ago, she started texting me through Instagram and she was just wondering how I was doing. Then, like my stupid teenage boy mind, I thought she did this because she wanted to be my girlfriend or just something more than a friend. I asked her how she was doing and she had her problems, having fake friends and stuff. She kept asking, for a few days, about stuff. Then, a few weeks later, she asked for my real phone number, which I really thought was getting into girlfriend territory. She told me more about her problems, people telling rumors, getting dumped, no one really liked her and she said she started crying. All that talk really wanted me to help. SO, I did the stupidiest thing possible, I told her I wanted to help and wanted to be more than friends and I liked her as a girlfriend. She was really confused. Then we got into my issues and how I got more depressed than she had ever heard me before. I told her about the bad things in my life. And after a while after that I said sorry for making this about me, then she said no its okay I think, can’t remember it all. A few minutes later I said let’s take a break form all this. Then she said it sounds like we were talking as girlfriend & boyfriend. She also told me the only reason she asked for my number was it was easier to talk, which made me feel so bad. SO, we did, but then it got into we were kind of avoiding/ignoring each other. The next day, I think, I felt so bad. Oh and BTW, this was all during my winter break. Then a day afterward I stayed up all night talking to her, and it seemed like she was insane, because she didn’t remember anything and was probably with a friend. I got all serious and wanted to talk to her on the phone for real. She called me and started laughing with her friend, for the last call I made, I started talking about how I was really sorry, but very annoyed with how she was acting. A few weeks later, today, while I am writing this, while I had my friends over and got my phone back, it was a real big issue I shouldn’t get into, she texted me on Insta saying I was creep and blocked me on text and might do it on Insta too and I was talking to her like we were dating, and I quote she said “WHICH WERE NOT”. After that I said I was sorry. She replied for what. And I said “Everything”. She said “Mhm, Bye”. Now I replied with I am really sorry and I know you can’t forgive me. But now my phone is still being taken away, so now I can’t see her reply. I feel terrible and I feel I can’t do anything so she can forgive so please help. What do I do, when I finally do get it, it being my phone, back and how do I do it?
Hey there,
I’m so sorry to hear about what happened. You could try apologizing to her one last time, and then if she is still upset, give her some space. I would write something like this: I’m sorry I upset you. It wasn’t my intention and it won’t happen again. I hope everything is going OK with you and we can talk again soon (as friends).
Don’t beat yourself up over this, we all make mistakes…just try and learn from it. Remember, you will meet the right girl (even if it’s not her).
Good luck! I really hope everything works out.
Claudia
Thank you, I really appreciate someone giving me advice. I will hopefully remember to tell you how the results go.
Thank you again,
Chipper
You’re welcome Chipper! 🙂 I hope that everything works out for the best.
Claudia
I overreacted over a small text .I asked him wyd? And all he said was why do you need.and i told my friends he is full of attitude..how should i apologize..
Hi Tzyuy,
I wouldn’t focus on the situation too much and send him a ton of apology text messages. Instead, next time you see him, tell him you’re sorry for what happened, and that you were just having a bad day. Then smile and bring up another subject…and don’t do it again. People have a tendency to get upset when they hear things through the grapevine. If he upsets you, tell him to his face, not your friends and hopefully you can avoid this type of situation..
Good luck!
Bisous
Claudia
hi, im henry. me and my girl have been into a lot of fights recently but whenever I try to solve the issue she changes the subject. recently, she got really mad at me for texting her friend who I consider as my younger sister that I helped her when she wanted to commit suicide. please help
Hi Henry,
I’m sorry to hear that you and your girlfriend are constantly fighting, it sounds like you are doing everything you can to fix the situation. Unfortunately there is not a lot you can do to improve your relationship if she doesn’t want to talk about it. Try talking to her about your relationship next time you’re together. If she still changes the subject, text or email her with what you were planning to discuss. If she ignores your text message or blames you, consider moving on.
Good luck!
Bisous
Claudia
Hi, Please I’m confused about my girlfriend, at first we were in love and it’s That kind a serious one, but I’m no taking it serious as she takes our relationship.
I have been busy with my schedules and for that reason I can’t create a time for her love.
So, she called me and said that we should just break up because i don’t have her time.
Then i told her that it’s okay, then we break up.
After a month later, I started thinking about her every day and almost every time.
So i called her number many times, but she was not answering my calls, then I send her an apology SMS, and her reply was ” I think I hate love and I’m not coming back”
And I really love her now.
Pls what should I do ?
Hi there,
I’m sorry to hear about what happened. Is there a way that you can show her that you still care? Can you do something special for her that you know she would appreciate? Actions go a lot further than words…think about it.
Bisous
Claudia
Hi Claudia, my name is Susan and I’m 33 years old. I met this guy online on dating website about a week ago. Things were going okay at first. He initiated texts then that leads to phone calls and video calls. We live in a different country and he promised he will come to see me after I get my operation done. But then for the last couple days he’s been very distant, I know he’s been busy but I know something else is going on, call it woman’s intuition. We both are scared of getting hurt again due to painful experiences with the past relationships. But it seems like now I have lowered my defences he begins to put up his wall. Last night I confronted him about it and he told me I was being irrationally emotional and that he can’t be available 24/7 for me, which I knew anyway and that was not what I would have wanted. I want to take things slow with him and keep the dynamic stable but he’s so difficult to keep up with. I haven’t been needy or anything, he even complained I took hours to reply to his texts. After that phone conversation I felt so stupid then sent him a text apologising for my behaviour and how I wouldn’t do it again and will be more focusing on myself. He didn’t reply. I sent him another apology/text this afternoon and hoping we still could be friends at least, he read it straight away but went offline without replying.
What do you think I should do? He’s 45 years old and I believe he’s to be mature enough to handle with this kind of situation. Thank you xo
Hi Susan,
I am so sorry to hear about what happened. It sounds like he has some emotional baggage that he needs to deal with – and even at 45 he is not ready to be in an adult relationship. Don’t beat yourself up over it, you didn’t do anything wrong. I wouldn’t reach out to him again, wait for him to message or call you. If he does, take it slow. Even if you have a great connection, until you actually meet him in person you can’t be sure about who he really is…it’s so easy to create a wonderful virtual persona but to be completely different in real life. And whatever you do, don’t give up on love – there are tons of amazing guys out there (I promise! 🙂 Good luck with your operation. Wishing you a speedy recovery.
Bisous xo
Claudia
hi, my name is rory and im 12. im in a really really really bad posistion right now.
so a guy asked me out over text, a bit of a surprise since we hadnt met in person before. later that day i found out he had also asked out one of my friends at the same time(he knew that she liked him) i wasnt upset that he asked me out, but i was upset that he had the nerve to do that to someone he knows that likes him, i asked him via text why he would do that and he blocked me. but the worst part is, i got someone else involved i got him to send a message to the guy who blocked me and he ended up blocking him too. now the guy i asked to help me is upset with me and i really liked him!
i sent him an apology message explaining i know what i did wrong and i hope he can forgive me and im sorry. he hasn’t seen it yet but i feel really guilty about what i’ve done.
thanks xxx
he’s read it now but hasn’t responded im really worried 🙁
Hi Rory,
I’m sorry to hear about what happened. I think you did the right thing by apologizing to your friend who helped you. If he is a true friend then he will forgive you. Just give it some time and don’t bombard him with messages. If he doesn’t respond to you in the next few days, try calling him or send him a follow up text message letting him know that you truly are sorry for putting him in such a position and that you don’t want to lose his friendship. Don’t beat yourself up over what happened. We all make mistakes and true friends forgive us. I hope that everything works out for you in the end.
Sending tons of positive energy your way
Claudia